Really Destigmatizing Mental (and Medical) Illness

Recently I was asked to speak with a large group of resident physicians after one of their colleagues committed suicide the week prior. It was a hard discussion to have for a couple of reasons, including the fact that I had never done such a thing before. I had, however, gone through the same experience when I was in residency training–a colleague committed suicide when I was in residency as well. It was an event that impacted those that knew him, as well as those that did not. This is sadly a topic that is not discussed much–depression and suicide in physicians. Part of the difficulty in confronting this issue, is of course that doctors have a hard time asking for help for their own mental health. However, doctor’s rates of depression and suicide are higher than the general population–but on the other hand they have lower rates of cardiovascular disease.

One of the things I have personally struggled with during my training in medical school and residency, was dealing with depression. Unfortunately, although I was in a psychiatry residency, talking openly about being depressed was still a no-no. What it will take to destigmatize depression is being able to discuss it openly. So although it is hard, I will start in this forum. I have been depressed in the past. Finally after some time, at the encouragement of a friend years ago, I sought really good help for myself, and now I am a completely different person than I was back then.

I was also diagnosed with multiple sclerosis six months ago. This is another issue I have been struggling with, but in the past couple of months I feel I have been able to get a good handle on it, in particular by managing the things I still have control over. One of the things that I have learned though, is that I have an easier time talking to friends about having MS; I never talked that openly about depression. I was worried what others would think of me, that I would appear weak, and so on. I felt that way despite knowing so much about depression and why it happens, how it’s treated, and how it affects people. It has been a struggle dealing with all my health issues, but I’m so glad I’ve had the determination to do it. That being said, I’ve needed a lot of help along the way, and for that I’m grateful too.

If you think you might be depressed, tell someone. Ask for help. If the situation were reversed, wouldn’t you help the person asking? It’s hard to manage these things alone. Happy mental health everyone!

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4 Comments on “Really Destigmatizing Mental (and Medical) Illness”

  1. SO proud of you for speaking out! If more doctors did what you have done here, the world would be a better, brighter and saner place. So, brava to you for “coming out” sister! You will inspire more people than you know 🙂

  2. Andrea Says:

    My cousin is a doctor and recently told me that she has been depressed for a while, and does not want to discuss it with anyone she works with. I encouraged her to seek medical advice, and I will be sending her this blog post.

  3. Fatin Girgis Says:

    very proud of you, i am inspired with your blog, and keep it up, you have every right to be happy

  4. YMO Says:

    Definitely an inspired and inspirational post! It is important for us, as physicians, to be taking care of our own health- physical and mental. Destigmatizing mental illness, is an important part of that process.

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